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Menopause: ‘Where Am I At?’

Menopause: ‘Where Am I At?’

Most women start expecting menopause sometime in their 40s. It’s the point when your menstrual periods permanently stop, marking the end of your reproductive years. 

Menopause is a natural biological shift driven by a significant decline in estrogen and progesterone, and it comes with sometimes surprising physical and emotional changes.

Women, on average, reach menopause at age 52, but the range is 40-58 years old, and both ends of that spectrum are normal. So, if your friends are experiencing hot flashes and night sweats while you’re still having regular periods, there’s no need to worry. 

However, if you notice symptoms you can’t quite explain, such as irregular periods, brain fog, or sleep problems, or you’re worried that you haven’t hit menopause yet, ARA Integrative and Functional Medicine in Glen Mills, Pennsylvania, is the right place to start.

Board-certified internal and integrative medicine specialist Dr. Rina Kapoor and her team take a thorough, personalized approach to women’s hormonal health to figure out “where you’re at” with menopause. 

In this article, we walk through the stages of menopause, the most common symptoms to watch for, and your options to feel better.

The three stages: Perimenopause, menopause, postmenopause

A common source of confusion is the use of menopause as a catch-all term for a multi-stage process. Perimenopause is the transition period leading up to menopause, and for most women, it starts in their mid- to late 40s, though it can begin as early as the mid-30s. 

During perimenopause, estrogen levels fluctuate erratically. Your periods may become irregular, sometimes heavier, sometimes lighter, sometimes skipping a month altogether. 

This stage can last a few months to a full decade, surprising many people. You can still get pregnant during perimenopause, so you still need contraception if that’s a concern.

Menopause is technically a single moment — specifically, the point when you’ve gone 12 months in a row without a menstrual period. Everything before that is perimenopause, even if your symptoms are intense. Postmenopause covers everything after that point.

Symptoms to know

Menopause symptoms vary widely from woman to woman. Hot flashes are probably the most common symptom. This sudden wave of heat, usually in the upper body, can last a few seconds to several minutes and often includes flushing and sweating. 

When they occur at night, hot flashes are called night sweats and can disrupt your sleep. Speaking of sleep, insomnia and restless nights are typical during perimenopause and menopause. Many women report lying awake at 3 a.m. for no apparent reason. 

Irritability, anxiety, sadness, or just a general sense of emotional flatness are also reported, particularly during perimenopause when hormone levels fluctuate. 

Cognitive symptoms are also common. Many women describe brain fog, difficulty concentrating, or forgetting words and names more than before. That can be alarming, but for most women, it improves after menopause.

Vaginal dryness, discomfort during sex, and changes in libido are standard but often under-discussed. Lower estrogen levels cause the vaginal tissues to thin and become less lubricated, a condition called genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM). 

Other symptoms can include joint stiffness, headaches, changes in hair and skin texture, and weight gain, particularly around the abdomen.

Your options for managing symptoms

Hormone replacement therapy (HRT) or menopausal hormone therapy (MHT) is one of the most effective treatments for moderate to severe menopause symptoms

HRT or MHT replaces some of the estrogen (and sometimes progesterone) your body no longer produces. However, it’s not for everyone; we conduct a thorough evaluation before starting.

Nonhormonal medications are also available, particularly for women who can’t or prefer not to use hormones. Certain antidepressants, for example, may reduce the frequency of hot flashes. 

For vaginal dryness and discomfort, low-dose topical estrogen is highly effective, making it an option for some women who aren’t ideal candidates for HRT.

Lifestyle changes also help. Regular exercise helps with mood, sleep, weight management, and bone health. A diet rich in calcium and vitamin D supports bone density. 

Limiting alcohol and caffeine can reduce hot flash frequency for some women. Stress management practices such as yoga or mindfulness can help with anxiety and sleep. 

Whether you’re in your early 40s and noticing your cycles are changing, or you’re well past your last period and still dealing with symptoms that affect your daily life, there’s no wrong time to ask for help. 

Request an appointment online today at ARA Integrative and Functional Medicine. You can also call our Philadelphia-area office at 610-358-3300 to get started.

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